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My first Christmas in sobriety felt scary and bumpy. A bit like walking through a snow-globe of traditions I used to be part of but seeing it all from a completely new perspective. It can be beautiful, emotional, fun and also very overwhelming. While the world seems to be in a bubble of mulled wine, prosecco toasts, and “just one won’t hurt,” you’re doing something incredibly brave: choosing yourself. Here’s some of my top tips on how to navigate the festive season with clari

When I think about being sober there are so many positives; clarity, health, freedom, purpose. And while all of that absolutely is the case, there’s a quieter, heavier layer that often goes unspoken….. sobriety is also an act of grief. Not just grief for the alcohol, but for the life, identity, and version of yourself that you’re choosing to walk away from. ✨ The Loss You Can’t Hold in Your Hands When you stop drinking, you lose things that never show up on any “before and af

Some people seem naturally positive, but positivity is more of a practice than a personality trait, especially in sobriety. It grows through small daily habits like noticing the good, reframing tough moments, staying connected to supportive people, and celebrating each step forward. Sobriety doesn’t mean life becomes easy. It means you’re learning to face life with honesty, resilience, and hope. Positivity isn’t something you’re born with but it is something you can build. He

Cravings are like sudden weather changes appearing quickly, feeling so intense, and in the moment they feel like they will last forever. But here’s the truth: most cravings peak within 5 minutes and pass whether you act on them or not….. So the key is having tools ready for those moments and more importantly USING them! Here’s the top 10 recommendations for swerving a craving…. ✨ The 4D Method: Delay, Distract, Drink, Deep Breath This is one of the most reliable methods of n